I thought that we could compromise, but it has become clear to me that they have no respect for me or anything that I want. I question how much they even care about me at all. Not even Mom has called me. They would rather not have a daughter than a daughter like me, I suppose.
[And becomes silent for a few moments, chewing her bottom lip.]
I wish that they could be proud of me, but I suppose I'm not even terribly successful at music. I wish they would respect me and my choices.
[ a huff at that talk. the good old “i want my parents to be proud”. don’t worry, angela— he’s been there. a lot. his father’s approval was constantly sought back in the day, and sometimes he can still feel the sharp glances of disapproval at his choices gnaw at him. if there’s one thing he’s learned from it, it’s this, and sometimes he has to remind himself of it. ]
The only person you should be making proud with your decisions is you. You’re the one living them.
[ and— hey. he’s proud of it. that’s a good bonus. ]
[ eren gives it a minute of thought— not that he’s thinking about what to say, he’s just recalling something. while they line up, he leans forward just enough to put his elbows on his legs. ]
My dad said he’d stop paying for everything if I joined the Air Force. I said “go ahead”. [ it was funny how much these situations happen— and ironically, he was on the military spectrum. their parents are probably pulling their hairs out at the irony. ] Because I learned how to manage before that.
[ it’s why he lives on his own, has his own apartment, his own pretty expensive car— he was still lucky enough to have been taught how to save, how to invest, how to do pretty simple things that can get you started. a successful doctor would want success for his son, and with that in mind, showed the ropes. he just didn’t expect eren to take what he learned and go a completely different way. jokes on you, dad. ]
I’m not gonna force you to stay with me, [ he holds five fingers up. ] but if you do, I’ll give you five nights to learn what I know and use it. [ that’s the whole package, from working and earning money, to making it multiply, to finding her own place. ] You’ll have your own place by the end of this week, without a single cent from me.
[ and he’s not just saying that— he knows she can do it if she accepts. ]
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I thought that we could compromise, but it has become clear to me that they have no respect for me or anything that I want. I question how much they even care about me at all. Not even Mom has called me. They would rather not have a daughter than a daughter like me, I suppose.
[And becomes silent for a few moments, chewing her bottom lip.]
I wish that they could be proud of me, but I suppose I'm not even terribly successful at music. I wish they would respect me and my choices.
[Sigh.]
Alas, Eren...
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[ a huff at that talk. the good old “i want my parents to be proud”. don’t worry, angela— he’s been there. a lot. his father’s approval was constantly sought back in the day, and sometimes he can still feel the sharp glances of disapproval at his choices gnaw at him. if there’s one thing he’s learned from it, it’s this, and sometimes he has to remind himself of it. ]
The only person you should be making proud with your decisions is you. You’re the one living them.
[ and— hey. he’s proud of it. that’s a good bonus. ]
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I shouldn't keep...hoping that they'll change. Even now, I'm stupidly trying to prove myself to them by trying to make it on my own.
...What am I to do, Eren? [She kicks the ground with one foot.]
What's the best course of action, here?
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My dad said he’d stop paying for everything if I joined the Air Force. I said “go ahead”. [ it was funny how much these situations happen— and ironically, he was on the military spectrum. their parents are probably pulling their hairs out at the irony. ] Because I learned how to manage before that.
[ it’s why he lives on his own, has his own apartment, his own pretty expensive car— he was still lucky enough to have been taught how to save, how to invest, how to do pretty simple things that can get you started. a successful doctor would want success for his son, and with that in mind, showed the ropes. he just didn’t expect eren to take what he learned and go a completely different way. jokes on you, dad. ]
I’m not gonna force you to stay with me, [ he holds five fingers up. ] but if you do, I’ll give you five nights to learn what I know and use it. [ that’s the whole package, from working and earning money, to making it multiply, to finding her own place. ] You’ll have your own place by the end of this week, without a single cent from me.
[ and he’s not just saying that— he knows she can do it if she accepts. ]